Sex therapist, bondage artist
Sex therapy
I offer short-term goal oriented sexual therapy and sexual counseling. I'm also available for presentations, workshops and consultation. I speak Finnish and English.
Rates
Individuals: 70 €/45 minutes or 90 €/60 minutes
Couples and polycules: 130 €/90 minutes
Contact and booking
Signal, Telegram, WhatsApp +358 50 3855811
Use my scheduling tool to book your first appointment
Availability
I am currently accepting new clients.
Online on weekdays or face-to-face on Mondays and Thursdays 11-17 at Kara, Berlin 10559.
Therapy
I offer short-term goal oriented sex therapy. We collaborate to maximize wellbeing and minimize discomfort in your sexual and relationship life. The focus is on taking small steps in the right direction.
Sex therapy can help you with questions or problems related to, among others:
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sexual functioning, desire, arousal and orgasm
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understanding your sexual needs, desires and boundaries
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past negative experiences and their impact
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gender and/or sexual identity
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pain that affects your sexuality
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relationship difficulties that are linked to sex and sexuality
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sexual self confidence and body image
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sexual shame and guilt
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sexual desires or actions that cause harm to yourself or others
Sex therapy is based on conversations and practical homework. No touch happens between the therapist and client. We meet 5-20 times depending on your needs. You can come to therapy solo, partnered or with your polycule. Discussions are confidential.
Couples therapy
I do couples therapy based on the Gottman method. We work on how you communicate with, appreciate, and celebrate each other.
The therapy starts with three assessment meetings, one together and two individual meetings, and answering questionnaires. Based on the information we have gathered, we will choose which aspects of your relationship to work on. The therapy consists of interventions in which you will practice skills that increase intimacy and replace negative conflict patterns.
Counseling
Sexuality counseling is goal-oriented collaboration. We meet for 1-5 times to discuss matters related to sex and sexuality without starting a therapeutic process. You can come to counseling solo, partnered or with your polycule.
Counseling is aimed at you if you need:
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to get more information about your sexuality or sex and sexuality in general
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someone to talk about your sexuality without fear of judgement or stigma
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advice on specific situations or questions
The topics we discuss can be the same as in sexual therapy. We can start a therapeutic process even after starting with counseling if you're unsure about how much support you will need.
Sexual counseling is based on talking. I might suggest solo or partnered touch based exercises to do at home. There is no sexual touch between counselor and client. Discussions are always confidential
How does it work?
Schedule on online or in-person first meeting with my scheduling tool. Our first appointment will be 60 minutes (for the price of 45 min) if you are coming for individual therapy or counseling sessions, and 90 minutes for pairs and other constellations. After our first meeting we will both/all decide if we want and can continue working together.
You can decide the length and rhythm of the meetings once we have met. Most people choose to meet for 45 minutes every 2 weeks, but we can also work in intervals of meeting more often and then having a longer break, or meet at a different rhythm. Our conversations are confidential. You can either pay by bank transfer (invoice) of cash. The cancelation fee is 50 % in case you cancel less than 24 hours before our meeting.